As parents, when you have a child with autism, it’s easy to feel like life is a constant balancing act. From therapy sessions to family commitments, your calendar can quickly become a full-fledged operation. 

There’s no doubt that therapies like Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) play an essential role in the development of your child with ASD. 

But have you ever stopped to wonder if there’s room for something else in the mix? 

What if the key to your child’s development lies in something as seemingly simple as playtime? Unstructured play, to be precise, offers unique benefits for children with autism that structured activities may not provide.

Yes, it’s true!

Play, that magical time when you let your child be, is not just fun—it’s incredibly beneficial, especially for children with autism. You might be asking, “How can I justify free time when there are so many therapies to juggle?” 

That’s the question we’re diving into today. Buckle up, because we’re about to break it down in a way that’s both informative and (hopefully) a bit fun, too!

Why Playtime Matters: It’s More Than Just Fun

For many children with autism, daily life revolves around structure—whether it’s ABA therapy, speech therapy, or social skills training. These therapies provide crucial support, helping your child build the skills they need to navigate the world. 

But while structure is key, it can sometimes feel overwhelming. That’s where unstructured play comes in.

So, what is unstructured play?

Unstructured play refers to any activity in which a child is free to explore, create, and imagine without rigid instructions or expectations. 

For children with autism, this type of play is a game-changer. Here’s how it helps them:

• Develop social skills: Unstructured play, such as playing with toys, games, or even siblings, allows children to practice taking turns, sharing, and communicating in real-world situations. It’s like a mini social boot camp, but without the pressure.

• Foster creativity and problem-solving: Whether they’re building a tower out of blocks or pretending to be a superhero, unstructured play encourages children to think creatively and solve problems on their own. This is crucial for cognitive development and independence.

• Improve emotional regulation: Kids with autism often experience difficulties with emotional regulation. Play gives them a safe space to express their feelings in a non-threatening way. Whether they’re feeling frustrated over a toy not working right or excited about a new game, these emotions can be explored and worked through during free time.

• Reduce stress and anxiety: When therapy is scheduled tightly, the pressure can be overwhelming. Play offers a break—a chance to unwind, have fun, and let loose without the heavy expectations of therapy sessions.

In fact, research shows that play therapy helps children with autism engage in activities they enjoy. It allows them to express themselves in ways that feel comfortable to them, and instead of using behaviors that aren’t helpful, they can use toys or activities to communicate their feelings. 

Play therapy also gives children the chance to explore different ways of interacting with others. Since every child with autism is unique, play therapy is one of the many ways to meet their individual needs and help them express themselves better.

ABA Therapy During Playtime

Now, let’s talk about ABA therapy for a moment. If you’re a parent of a child with autism, chances are you’ve heard of it—and probably live by it. 

ABA is a well-known and highly effective approach to helping children with autism build necessary life skills. It focuses on reinforcing positive behaviors and reducing undesired ones through structured lessons and rewards.

So, where does unstructured play fit into this?

ABA therapy and unstructured play can complement each other. While ABA teaches essential skills like communication, social interactions, and problem-solving, unstructured play allows your child to practice these skills in a relaxed, natural environment. 

It’s like taking what they learn in therapy and testing it in the real world—without anyone watching, and with plenty of room to make mistakes and try again.

ABA also has a special trick up its sleeve—reinforcement. Suppose your child succeeds in unstructured play by using a new skill, like initiating a conversation or waiting their turn. In that case, you can reinforce that behavior in a positive way, keeping them motivated and engaged.

The Balancing Act: How Much Play Is Enough?

We know you want the best for your child, so it can be tempting to schedule as much therapy as possible. 

But here’s the thing—kids need time just to be kids. 

The key is balance. You don’t have to choose between therapy and play. Both are important, and the trick is to give your child enough of each. 

Play is an essential part of childhood development, and it offers benefits that structured therapy cannot provide. In fact, too much structured time can lead to burnout, stress, and a lack of motivation.

In addition, in a 2022 study, play-based intervention has been shown to offer many benefits for children with autism, including improved focus, a greater sense of curiosity about their surroundings, and better control over their emotions. 

It’s more than just fun—playtime helps them connect with the world and themselves in meaningful ways.

Here are some simple ways to incorporate more unstructured play into your child’s routine:

• Schedule playtime into your day: Just as you plan for therapy, plan for play. Whether it’s 30 minutes or an hour, make sure there’s time for your child to play without any rules or schedules.

• Use play as a reward: Incorporate playtime as a reward for good behavior or completing a task during therapy. This creates a fun, motivating experience that helps reinforce your child’s accomplishments.

• Engage in joint play: Join your child during their playtime. Whether it’s a game of catch or building a Lego castle together, being present shows your child how to interact and play in a social setting.

• Let them choose: Allow your child to decide what to play and how to play. Giving them that freedom fosters independence and self-confidence.

The Importance of Compassionate Support

As parents, you are the driving force behind your child’s journey. It’s not just about therapies or schedules—it’s about your love, patience, and understanding that makes the difference. 

The beauty of combining therapy with unstructured play is that it shows your child that learning doesn’t always have to feel like work. Playtime is an opportunity to bond, have fun, and grow together.

Learn more about what is Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT) here.

Don’t be afraid to embrace the joy that comes from seeing your child smile while playing. It’s not just a break from the seriousness of life—it’s a powerful tool for growth and development.

How Early Autism Ventures Can Help Your Child With Autism

At Early Autism Ventures, we understand the importance of balancing therapy and free time. Our tailored programs incorporate the best of ABA therapy while leaving room for the creative freedom that your child needs. 

With a team of compassionate experts who truly care about your child’s development, we create an environment where play and therapy go hand in hand.

If you’re looking for personalized, engaging, and effective support for your child with autism, reach out to us today. 

Together, we can help your child thrive and find the right balance between structure and freedom—because every child deserves the opportunity to learn, grow, and play.

Ready to give your child the best of both worlds? Don’t wait—your child’s future is bright, and it starts with the right support today. 

Schedule a FREE consultation with our expert behavior analysts now.